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Ultimately, the meme that attempts to put down foreign men ultimately only puts down Japanese women. I think if a phenotype comes with assumptions, then that can be problematic.
I cringe when I hear some other guys, "white" or "black" (in quotes because race is an artificial construct, but holy fuck, let's not go too far down the rabbit hole) or whatever, talking about how Asian women are "submissive" or "know how to take care of a man" or other weird stereotypes that they will tell me in confidence because they assume a comradery with me on the issue.
For example, one fictional Japanese woman is quoted as saying that she only dated a foreigner, who was otherwise unappealing, to annoy her parents.
A weird anachronistic take on familial relations, but okay.
Those Asian people grew up from birth in Canada as I did, and so culturally they were as Canadian as me.
I never perceived Asian-ness as being anything more than one of a few options for appearance, it never said anything to me about the person inside.
Still, even though now I wouldn't really be satisfied with that kind of superficiality, it's not as if my eyes stopped being green or my origins as an English speaker have gone away.
It's so extreme that you could be a complete fucking troll of a man and still do well in Japan. To the degree that you claim Japanese women are oblivious to problems that would repel foreign women, you're buying into an idea that Japanese women are more indiscriminate than other women. Is there at least a grain of truth to the idea that foreign men do better than wherever it is they come from? I don't think there's a blanket answer to that, because it matters why.
Anyone and everyone is entitled to their fetishes, and if one person is more attracted to another person because of some particular fetish, like height, or success, or breast size, or wealth, or whatever, then sure, what the hell.