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They will always blame others—it is never their fault. Total absence of anxiety, fear, and worry where there otherwise should be. You write this off as calm and cool, often feeling inferior and over-sensitive because you have normal human emotions. Insults you with a condescending, joking sort of attitude. Teasing becomes the primary mode of communication in your relationship.
They spend more time rationalizing their behavior than improving it. They subtly belittle your intelligence and achievements.
No adult should need to be told how they are making other people feel. If you point out their mistakes, they will always be quick to turn the conversation back on you. They will also mirror your greatest fantasies, playing whatever role is necessary to win your heart. Frequently comments about what you’re wearing and how you look. You become obsessed with your appearance, noticing flaws that likely don’t even exist.
During and after the relationship, you will spend significantly more time in front of the mirror. Normal couples argue to resolve issues, but psychopaths make it clear that negative conversations will jeopardize the relationship, especially ones regarding their behavior.
They bait previously denounced exes with old songs and inside jokes. These people make you feel jealous and give off the perception that your partner is in high-demand. Hyperbolizes emotions while displaying none of them.
They make passionate statements like “I’ve never felt so happy in my life” in a completely robotic voice. Others will think they're the nicest person in the world, even though they are used for money, resources, and attention.
Delighted by the idea of breaking up friendships and marriages. Blatantly denies their own manipulative behavior and ignores evidence when confronted with it. If they stop communicating with you for several days, it’s your fault for not knowing about the plans they never told you about. They drain the energy from you and consume your entire life. You thought you were the only one who could make them happy, but now you feel that anyone with a beating pulse could fit the role. After a run-in with a psychopath, you will feel insane, exhausted, drained, shocked, suicidal, and empty.
To quote a longtime member & friend, Phoenix, you will stop asking “Do they like me?
Dating should be fun and exciting, but more importantly, dating should be safe and involve mutual respect.
It sounds like an alien trying to explain how they imagine human emotions might feel. They won’t care because he/she strategically distracts them with shallow praise (often done over social networking).
Psychopaths are able to maintain superficial friendships far longer than their relationships. Accuses you of emotions that they are intentionally provoking.You will discover that many old relationships may need revisiting.